Tuesday, March 21, 2006 |
F.R.I.E.N.D = K.A.W.A.N |
Who are we without our dear friends..
Who make better friends? Guys or girls?
It's funny how once upon an 'immature' time, I used to think that the more guy friends you had, the more admired you were. So yeah, learnt much later that it was my girlfriends who meant more to me. Not that I don't appreciate the friendship I have with some guys.. it's just that I'm more comfortable opening up to girls. And girls make great confidants. It's cool that I know one or two guys I would tell my secrets or problems to, but most of the time I'd rather tell my girlfriends. But I do know this for a fact, guys don't tell (except for a few) but most girls do tell. But most of the time it doesn't bother me as long as the story stays within a certain circle. Am I right? Believe me, even I am guilty of letting loose certain confidential information..
Having girlfriends allow you to be bimbo-ish. There's always someone to shop with, late night talks about boys and gossip, excitement over fashion and beauty stuff, and the best part: hugging! Whenever you need a hug, you can definitely depend on your girlfriends. The thing you must be careful about girlfriends: Never betray the ones who are very close to you. A guy may forget about it and move on, most girls remember till the end. It's a protective mechanism I think.
With guys? What else if not to enjoy eating a buffet with! Not only that, who else can we bully into being gentlemen: making them carry stuff, drive you around, accompany you to creepy places.. I've not had much problems getting along with guys so far. The refreshing thing about having a guy friend is having a conversation that doesn't revolve around appearances and gossip. With a guy, you'd probably be talking about anything 'gadget-y'. And not forgeting computer games and 'anime'. Of course there are guys who gossip as well.
One more week for psychiatry to end.. orthopaedic, here I come.. |
posted by Sha @ 8:29 PM |
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